Anonymous asked: All my friends are out at a party. I didn't want to go because last night I got so drunk I made out with my best guy friend. Also my roommate is gone and I'm alone in my apartment and none of the people I thought were my best friends will text me back or offer to stay with me. I feel so lonely and unwanted. I wish I had someone to snuggle me and kiss me and love me. My life is a shit show.
Aww bby ♥
You know, when I look back to when I was younger and was in similar situations, I often think “why didn’t I just ask/said so???” I often just sobbed and felt stupid and wondered what they were doing, or what they were thinking of it, etc., but if I just asked, it would have been so much easier! I know it often would have be scary to have done so, but I believe it’s also good to learn to do such things, and to once in a while get out of your comfort zone and do “scary” things. I suggest talk to your friends, ask them why they didn’t text you back when you really need them. If people treat you like shit, never forget you have the full right to confront them with it and/or remove people who make you feel bad from your life.
thskidsnotalright asked: I'm having issues being alone and whatnot. any tips on dealing with loneliness?
There’s being alone and being lonely. I absolutely love being alone - I need it a lot, especially after I’ve been with people for a long time.
I think some people need to learn to be alone. Learn that it’s okay. It’s okay if you prefer being around people or prefer being alone, but I think it’s important to be able to accept both - especially the latter. Try finding out why you feel bad about being lonely.
Besides that, you’re not alone - you’re with yourself :) I think society makes us believe being alone is bad or weird, but I love traveling alone, going to cities to walk or shop or eat alone, etc. I think it becomes easy when you decide to become your own best friend.
Anonymous asked: I want to dye my hair red, blue & purple (not at the same time, but in that order). I asked my bf for his opinion because I felt like I should get it. He told me it would bother him, but that I can do whatever I want since it's my body. Now, I'm upset and I'm bothered by the fact that it bothers him. I figure I should just accept it, get over it, and go ahead and dye my hair, but it's not that easy and I don't know?
I understand :) Did he told you why it bothered him? If you still feel upset about it, maybe you could tell him so and talk about it. Don’t worry that he will ridicule you or something, because since he’s your boyfriend I’m sure he will understand - and if not, you definitely deserve better. Whatever happens, dye your hair for sure and rock it! I can understand you value his opinion and that’s very normal bc he’s your boyfriend, but in the end the only thing that matters is what you want!
Anonymous asked: The fact you care so much for your followers already makes me really happy. You're a great person to be following c:
You really all are qt’s ♥
Is there anything I can do to make your day better?
Or talk to me on anon about something that’s bothering you/you want to talk about??